I second that. He has some good theories on self-talk and positive thinking, but if you try Speed Seduction on a woman, I doubt you'll see her again.
If you acquire some of his ebooks, you'll also see that he's a scam artist.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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If you acquire some of his ebooks, you'll also see that he's a scam artist.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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What's the problem about this guy? I thought he was another guy like David de Angelo!!!Originally posted by Jariel
... if you try Speed Seduction on a woman, I doubt you'll see her again. If you acquire some of his ebooks, you'll also see that he's a scam artist.
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Well, for starters, there's the quote of his I posted on the first page of this thread. Just briefly, though, the guy is the same as ones who in medieval times sold "Love Potions". You're not sure which is creepier, a guy who would sell something that supposedly makes a girl want you against her will, or a guy who would want that. And when it's all over, both guys are creepy and the "potion" doesn't work in the first place.Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
What's the problem about this guy? I thought he was another guy like David de Angelo!!!
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holy f*ck that is right up there with the 'if she isn't interested anymore then spend all you money on her and write her romantic love songs' advice.Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Avoid Ross Jeffries like the plague. If you ignore this advice, someday you'll wish you hadn't.
One of the hardest things for anyone to do is watch a grown man cry. You are going to depend on that for this method, but be aware that this one is going to take some acting ability. Pull away after she rejects you and put your head in your hands. Quietly start to sob.
"I'm sorry .... I should have known better than to think .... that a girl like you .... could like me .... "
Sob some more. "Let me sit a second .... and I'll take you home." (Obviously if you are at HER place, you word it accordingly, dummy!) "It's just that I'll never know .... the peace .... of having you in my arms .... and loving you .... it would have meant so much .... (sob, sob). I've never been with a woman as beautiful as you .... you don't know the confidence it would have given me...and the happiness .... . (sob uncontrollably now) .... could you find it in yourself .... just to let me kiss you once .... to know I at least had that?"
Now I promise you, if the girl has any heart at ALL, she'll kiss you. And that's when you resume your pass. If she stops you, start weeping again.
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Yeah it's just straight downward the complete opposite of the entire DJ mindset,
Ditch it I say
Ditch it I say
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.