"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Avoid Ross Jeffries like the plague. If you ignore this advice, someday you'll wish you hadn't.
I second that. He has some good theories on self-talk and positive thinking, but if you try Speed Seduction on a woman, I doubt you'll see her again.

If you acquire some of his ebooks, you'll also see that he's a scam artist.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Jariel
... if you try Speed Seduction on a woman, I doubt you'll see her again. If you acquire some of his ebooks, you'll also see that he's a scam artist.
What's the problem about this guy? I thought he was another guy like David de Angelo!!!
 

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Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
What's the problem about this guy? I thought he was another guy like David de Angelo!!!
Well, for starters, there's the quote of his I posted on the first page of this thread. Just briefly, though, the guy is the same as ones who in medieval times sold "Love Potions". You're not sure which is creepier, a guy who would sell something that supposedly makes a girl want you against her will, or a guy who would want that. And when it's all over, both guys are creepy and the "potion" doesn't work in the first place.
 

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Re: Re: Hi, new here

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Avoid Ross Jeffries like the plague. If you ignore this advice, someday you'll wish you hadn't.

One of the hardest things for anyone to do is watch a grown man cry. You are going to depend on that for this method, but be aware that this one is going to take some acting ability. Pull away after she rejects you and put your head in your hands. Quietly start to sob.

"I'm sorry .... I should have known better than to think .... that a girl like you .... could like me .... "

Sob some more. "Let me sit a second .... and I'll take you home." (Obviously if you are at HER place, you word it accordingly, dummy!) "It's just that I'll never know .... the peace .... of having you in my arms .... and loving you .... it would have meant so much .... (sob, sob). I've never been with a woman as beautiful as you .... you don't know the confidence it would have given me...and the happiness .... . (sob uncontrollably now) .... could you find it in yourself .... just to let me kiss you once .... to know I at least had that?"

Now I promise you, if the girl has any heart at ALL, she'll kiss you. And that's when you resume your pass. If she stops you, start weeping again.
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holy f*ck that is right up there with the 'if she isn't interested anymore then spend all you money on her and write her romantic love songs' advice.
 
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Yeah it's just straight downward the complete opposite of the entire DJ mindset,
Ditch it I say
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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