Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Jariel

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Avoid Ross Jeffries like the plague. If you ignore this advice, someday you'll wish you hadn't.
I second that. He has some good theories on self-talk and positive thinking, but if you try Speed Seduction on a woman, I doubt you'll see her again.

If you acquire some of his ebooks, you'll also see that he's a scam artist.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Jariel
... if you try Speed Seduction on a woman, I doubt you'll see her again. If you acquire some of his ebooks, you'll also see that he's a scam artist.
What's the problem about this guy? I thought he was another guy like David de Angelo!!!
 

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Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
What's the problem about this guy? I thought he was another guy like David de Angelo!!!
Well, for starters, there's the quote of his I posted on the first page of this thread. Just briefly, though, the guy is the same as ones who in medieval times sold "Love Potions". You're not sure which is creepier, a guy who would sell something that supposedly makes a girl want you against her will, or a guy who would want that. And when it's all over, both guys are creepy and the "potion" doesn't work in the first place.
 

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Re: Re: Hi, new here

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Avoid Ross Jeffries like the plague. If you ignore this advice, someday you'll wish you hadn't.

One of the hardest things for anyone to do is watch a grown man cry. You are going to depend on that for this method, but be aware that this one is going to take some acting ability. Pull away after she rejects you and put your head in your hands. Quietly start to sob.

"I'm sorry .... I should have known better than to think .... that a girl like you .... could like me .... "

Sob some more. "Let me sit a second .... and I'll take you home." (Obviously if you are at HER place, you word it accordingly, dummy!) "It's just that I'll never know .... the peace .... of having you in my arms .... and loving you .... it would have meant so much .... (sob, sob). I've never been with a woman as beautiful as you .... you don't know the confidence it would have given me...and the happiness .... . (sob uncontrollably now) .... could you find it in yourself .... just to let me kiss you once .... to know I at least had that?"

Now I promise you, if the girl has any heart at ALL, she'll kiss you. And that's when you resume your pass. If she stops you, start weeping again.
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holy f*ck that is right up there with the 'if she isn't interested anymore then spend all you money on her and write her romantic love songs' advice.
 
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Yeah it's just straight downward the complete opposite of the entire DJ mindset,
Ditch it I say
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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