"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi. I'm new. Can you please help me?

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WhenTheRadiatorBurst

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I'm Matt, and I'm 16. A friend referred me here.

I'm just so lonely. I've got no one. I don't have a girlfriend. I just want a female companion. A girlfriend. I don't care about sex, or any of that stuff. I just want a girl to love me, and let me love her. I'm so lonely. I've got nobody. I've got some emotional problems, but I'm a nice guy. I really do have love to give.

Please help me.

I look like crap. I'm freaking ugly. It's my teeth. They're yellow, because of stupid medicines I was on as a kid. :(
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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War Against Betaism

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You need a lot of work. Read the bible yet? If you haven't, you should do that. The one book that I love recommending to people is "How To Make Great Conversations And Small Talk" by Sean McPheat. I learned more in the first 30 pages of that book than I did in most of the other bs dating books out there. Getting a girlfriend is as easy having a great first conversation.
 
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pjtheman

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First things first my friend:
A: read some of the articles on the actual site (you know the link on top that says "SoSuave.com"

B:read the DJ bible (link at the bottem of the screen)

C: you're 16! wtf are you looking for love for! You need to be out having fun and working on your game cause I got news for you boy, no hot girls your age are looking for love. A boyfriend maybe but not what you're saying which seems to be: Spendtherestofourlivestogetherhere'stheringputitonandseehowitlooksi'mbeggingyoupleasedon'tleaveme, style of thing.

D : that's all! what are you looking for a D for! Read the bible, get your game together and quit whining about feeling lonely. Get out and enjoy your life while you don't have alot to worry about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lil Magic

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Okay dude. Boy does this sound familliar. well first things first, you need to get reading every piece of seduction material possible, and dude, don't act timid or needy. Portray confidence and ****iness. Not to ****y, but amusing ****y/ funny. I advise going to scribd.com and searching seduction and pick up artist. A lot of useful books on the topic come up. And for goodness sake, please, PLEASE, DONT ACT DESPERATE. Thats destroying any chance you may have with any girl at all.
 
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