"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi. I'm new. Can you please help me?

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I'm Matt, and I'm 16. A friend referred me here.

I'm just so lonely. I've got no one. I don't have a girlfriend. I just want a female companion. A girlfriend. I don't care about sex, or any of that stuff. I just want a girl to love me, and let me love her. I'm so lonely. I've got nobody. I've got some emotional problems, but I'm a nice guy. I really do have love to give.

Please help me.

I look like crap. I'm freaking ugly. It's my teeth. They're yellow, because of stupid medicines I was on as a kid. :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
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You need a lot of work. Read the bible yet? If you haven't, you should do that. The one book that I love recommending to people is "How To Make Great Conversations And Small Talk" by Sean McPheat. I learned more in the first 30 pages of that book than I did in most of the other bs dating books out there. Getting a girlfriend is as easy having a great first conversation.
 

pjtheman

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First things first my friend:
A: read some of the articles on the actual site (you know the link on top that says "SoSuave.com"

B:read the DJ bible (link at the bottem of the screen)

C: you're 16! wtf are you looking for love for! You need to be out having fun and working on your game cause I got news for you boy, no hot girls your age are looking for love. A boyfriend maybe but not what you're saying which seems to be: Spendtherestofourlivestogetherhere'stheringputitonandseehowitlooksi'mbeggingyoupleasedon'tleaveme, style of thing.

D : that's all! what are you looking for a D for! Read the bible, get your game together and quit whining about feeling lonely. Get out and enjoy your life while you don't have alot to worry about.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lil Magic

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Okay dude. Boy does this sound familliar. well first things first, you need to get reading every piece of seduction material possible, and dude, don't act timid or needy. Portray confidence and ****iness. Not to ****y, but amusing ****y/ funny. I advise going to scribd.com and searching seduction and pick up artist. A lot of useful books on the topic come up. And for goodness sake, please, PLEASE, DONT ACT DESPERATE. Thats destroying any chance you may have with any girl at all.
 
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