"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi. I'm new. Can you please help me?

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I'm Matt, and I'm 16. A friend referred me here.

I'm just so lonely. I've got no one. I don't have a girlfriend. I just want a female companion. A girlfriend. I don't care about sex, or any of that stuff. I just want a girl to love me, and let me love her. I'm so lonely. I've got nobody. I've got some emotional problems, but I'm a nice guy. I really do have love to give.

Please help me.

I look like crap. I'm freaking ugly. It's my teeth. They're yellow, because of stupid medicines I was on as a kid. :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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War Against Betaism

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You need a lot of work. Read the bible yet? If you haven't, you should do that. The one book that I love recommending to people is "How To Make Great Conversations And Small Talk" by Sean McPheat. I learned more in the first 30 pages of that book than I did in most of the other bs dating books out there. Getting a girlfriend is as easy having a great first conversation.
 

pjtheman

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First things first my friend:
A: read some of the articles on the actual site (you know the link on top that says "SoSuave.com"

B:read the DJ bible (link at the bottem of the screen)

C: you're 16! wtf are you looking for love for! You need to be out having fun and working on your game cause I got news for you boy, no hot girls your age are looking for love. A boyfriend maybe but not what you're saying which seems to be: Spendtherestofourlivestogetherhere'stheringputitonandseehowitlooksi'mbeggingyoupleasedon'tleaveme, style of thing.

D : that's all! what are you looking for a D for! Read the bible, get your game together and quit whining about feeling lonely. Get out and enjoy your life while you don't have alot to worry about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lil Magic

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Okay dude. Boy does this sound familliar. well first things first, you need to get reading every piece of seduction material possible, and dude, don't act timid or needy. Portray confidence and ****iness. Not to ****y, but amusing ****y/ funny. I advise going to scribd.com and searching seduction and pick up artist. A lot of useful books on the topic come up. And for goodness sake, please, PLEASE, DONT ACT DESPERATE. Thats destroying any chance you may have with any girl at all.
 
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