"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Starlighter

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Hi. Im new here, and my goles are to be good at getting girls. I never get past the just friends stage. And im 21 years old now, so its about time. There is so much information. Pages and pages in the tips section and while somebody praise the advice, someone else is saying it's crap advice a few posts later. That's frustrating. Where do I begin? I need your guidance.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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First of all if you're interested in a girl don't attempt to become her friend.

Make it immediately clear you are interested in her in a way thats beyond that.
 

Fash

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Firstly....

Read the DJ bible. You will be surprised at how little changes in the way you interact will women can have a huge impact on your success rate.

Also, here is something I always say to my self before I approach a woman:

"I am a man. I have desires and I make no excuse for my desires as a man"

Be confident! Control them! Tell them what to do! Make your intentions and desires clear!

If you ever find your self in the friend's zone, then next her, instantly.
 

El' Waynos

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And secondly............ its GOALS and not GOLES, correct spelling and grammar are your first steps in becoming a perfectionist.

At 21 you should not be making such simple mistakes, what will that HB 10 say when you write MICHAEL instead of MICHELLE??
 

Skel

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Your goals or goles as you put it are a little shallow. How about setting your sights on something that actually matters? Such as improving yourself, your looks, your income, your knowledge, your self confidence etc etc. Once you accomplish this the women will be there for you anyhow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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