"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Starlighter

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Hi. Im new here, and my goles are to be good at getting girls. I never get past the just friends stage. And im 21 years old now, so its about time. There is so much information. Pages and pages in the tips section and while somebody praise the advice, someone else is saying it's crap advice a few posts later. That's frustrating. Where do I begin? I need your guidance.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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First of all if you're interested in a girl don't attempt to become her friend.

Make it immediately clear you are interested in her in a way thats beyond that.
 

Fash

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Firstly....

Read the DJ bible. You will be surprised at how little changes in the way you interact will women can have a huge impact on your success rate.

Also, here is something I always say to my self before I approach a woman:

"I am a man. I have desires and I make no excuse for my desires as a man"

Be confident! Control them! Tell them what to do! Make your intentions and desires clear!

If you ever find your self in the friend's zone, then next her, instantly.
 

El' Waynos

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And secondly............ its GOALS and not GOLES, correct spelling and grammar are your first steps in becoming a perfectionist.

At 21 you should not be making such simple mistakes, what will that HB 10 say when you write MICHAEL instead of MICHELLE??
 

Skel

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Your goals or goles as you put it are a little shallow. How about setting your sights on something that actually matters? Such as improving yourself, your looks, your income, your knowledge, your self confidence etc etc. Once you accomplish this the women will be there for you anyhow.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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