"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hi, I'm an idiot. . .

Starlighter

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Hi. Im new here, and my goles are to be good at getting girls. I never get past the just friends stage. And im 21 years old now, so its about time. There is so much information. Pages and pages in the tips section and while somebody praise the advice, someone else is saying it's crap advice a few posts later. That's frustrating. Where do I begin? I need your guidance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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First of all if you're interested in a girl don't attempt to become her friend.

Make it immediately clear you are interested in her in a way thats beyond that.
 

Fash

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Firstly....

Read the DJ bible. You will be surprised at how little changes in the way you interact will women can have a huge impact on your success rate.

Also, here is something I always say to my self before I approach a woman:

"I am a man. I have desires and I make no excuse for my desires as a man"

Be confident! Control them! Tell them what to do! Make your intentions and desires clear!

If you ever find your self in the friend's zone, then next her, instantly.
 

El' Waynos

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And secondly............ its GOALS and not GOLES, correct spelling and grammar are your first steps in becoming a perfectionist.

At 21 you should not be making such simple mistakes, what will that HB 10 say when you write MICHAEL instead of MICHELLE??
 

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Your goals or goles as you put it are a little shallow. How about setting your sights on something that actually matters? Such as improving yourself, your looks, your income, your knowledge, your self confidence etc etc. Once you accomplish this the women will be there for you anyhow.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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