"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi guys I'm new

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Hi I'm Pop Producer from Buenos Aires, Argentina...

I'm 33 (do people say how old are them here?) - I'm single and ending up a retaionship with a younger girl so I'm back in the scene again...

I have certain issues with some girls, specially one that I use to talk to on the phone but doesn't seem to be very interested in meeting me in person...

(i know I'm playing the pathetic nice guy that calls again game, I'm not doing that anymore)

But that's the subject of another post... I'm just saying hi and nice forum!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi and welcome to the forum!

Read the bible. Its the link in the upper right corner.:)
 
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If you want to say your age, you're free too. I think most people have their ages beneath their name
 
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HI again... I already read the bible and I agree with most of what it says...

There were certain things I was not practicing... I used to act like a nice guy most of the time... Which is fine, sometimes, but if you don't act like a jerk from time to time girls strat taking you for granted....
 
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BTW the best advice I've heard for becoming a DJ:

FLIRT WITH EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET, it doesn't matter is she's 14, 50, 84, married, single, pretty or ugly, or your best friend's mother.

This way, when you meet someone you are really interested in, you'll know what to do...

Everything requieres practice... And girls like guys who pays them some attention

(and I mean some casual remarks, not sending them flowers and chocolates)...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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