"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PopProducer

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Hi I'm Pop Producer from Buenos Aires, Argentina...

I'm 33 (do people say how old are them here?) - I'm single and ending up a retaionship with a younger girl so I'm back in the scene again...

I have certain issues with some girls, specially one that I use to talk to on the phone but doesn't seem to be very interested in meeting me in person...

(i know I'm playing the pathetic nice guy that calls again game, I'm not doing that anymore)

But that's the subject of another post... I'm just saying hi and nice forum!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi and welcome to the forum!

Read the bible. Its the link in the upper right corner.:)
 

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If you want to say your age, you're free too. I think most people have their ages beneath their name
 

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HI again... I already read the bible and I agree with most of what it says...

There were certain things I was not practicing... I used to act like a nice guy most of the time... Which is fine, sometimes, but if you don't act like a jerk from time to time girls strat taking you for granted....
 

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BTW the best advice I've heard for becoming a DJ:

FLIRT WITH EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET, it doesn't matter is she's 14, 50, 84, married, single, pretty or ugly, or your best friend's mother.

This way, when you meet someone you are really interested in, you'll know what to do...

Everything requieres practice... And girls like guys who pays them some attention

(and I mean some casual remarks, not sending them flowers and chocolates)...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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