"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi I'm Pop Producer from Buenos Aires, Argentina...

I'm 33 (do people say how old are them here?) - I'm single and ending up a retaionship with a younger girl so I'm back in the scene again...

I have certain issues with some girls, specially one that I use to talk to on the phone but doesn't seem to be very interested in meeting me in person...

(i know I'm playing the pathetic nice guy that calls again game, I'm not doing that anymore)

But that's the subject of another post... I'm just saying hi and nice forum!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi and welcome to the forum!

Read the bible. Its the link in the upper right corner.:)
 
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If you want to say your age, you're free too. I think most people have their ages beneath their name
 
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HI again... I already read the bible and I agree with most of what it says...

There were certain things I was not practicing... I used to act like a nice guy most of the time... Which is fine, sometimes, but if you don't act like a jerk from time to time girls strat taking you for granted....
 
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BTW the best advice I've heard for becoming a DJ:

FLIRT WITH EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET, it doesn't matter is she's 14, 50, 84, married, single, pretty or ugly, or your best friend's mother.

This way, when you meet someone you are really interested in, you'll know what to do...

Everything requieres practice... And girls like guys who pays them some attention

(and I mean some casual remarks, not sending them flowers and chocolates)...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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