"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hi I'm Pop Producer from Buenos Aires, Argentina...

I'm 33 (do people say how old are them here?) - I'm single and ending up a retaionship with a younger girl so I'm back in the scene again...

I have certain issues with some girls, specially one that I use to talk to on the phone but doesn't seem to be very interested in meeting me in person...

(i know I'm playing the pathetic nice guy that calls again game, I'm not doing that anymore)

But that's the subject of another post... I'm just saying hi and nice forum!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi and welcome to the forum!

Read the bible. Its the link in the upper right corner.:)
 
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If you want to say your age, you're free too. I think most people have their ages beneath their name
 
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HI again... I already read the bible and I agree with most of what it says...

There were certain things I was not practicing... I used to act like a nice guy most of the time... Which is fine, sometimes, but if you don't act like a jerk from time to time girls strat taking you for granted....
 
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BTW the best advice I've heard for becoming a DJ:

FLIRT WITH EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET, it doesn't matter is she's 14, 50, 84, married, single, pretty or ugly, or your best friend's mother.

This way, when you meet someone you are really interested in, you'll know what to do...

Everything requieres practice... And girls like guys who pays them some attention

(and I mean some casual remarks, not sending them flowers and chocolates)...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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