"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hi guys, I'm new here!

Criminal Mind

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Hi guys! I wasn't sure if this was the place to post this but it looked like the most relevant forum. It is... misc after all.

I discovered this whole community a few days ago picking up Neil Strauss' book "The Game".

Ever since, I've turned my three month summer break into a project, to see what this community is really like :)

It'll be great to get to know some of you guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most of us are A holes honestly but welcome.
 

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Originally posted by Criminal Mind

I discovered this whole community a few days ago picking up Neil Strauss' book "The Game".

Looks like you discovered the wrong community.

:crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol actually, I was on a few PUA sites, and couldn't find any real active communities that used the bulletin board system of operation like this one, so I joined this one at the suggestion of a PUA reccomended links.

O great, another KBDJ.

He's had 37 posts in 1 day!
LOL, if you think that's bad, you should see some of the really really, really, really rediculously large communities. Some people there get really bad. Actually, there just happened to be some topics which looked interesting to me :)

To the original poster... are you here to learn to be a Don Juan or a pickup artist?
I'm here to get a well-rounded education.
 

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nice website
 

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I just don't understand why "the game" got so much attention even before it was released to the public, while hundreds of different types of books are released and never get noticed.

Isn't the Game supposed to be a hidden thing, under the counter?

Its like telling everyone all about the drug dealing underworld. And actually teaching common people the tricks of the trade. If Neil Strauss did the exact same thing about Drug Dealing.. He'd probably be dead by now.

You know what.. I don't need Neil Strauss or his books. He does look like metrosexual. :down:
 

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I'm guessing the game got so much publicity, because it was the "first" book marketed in its category... couple that with the words "Secret Undeground Soceity"... well there you go.

A commonality to all man, and first-mover advantages... you got a winner.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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