"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi guys, I'm new here!

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Hi guys! I wasn't sure if this was the place to post this but it looked like the most relevant forum. It is... misc after all.

I discovered this whole community a few days ago picking up Neil Strauss' book "The Game".

Ever since, I've turned my three month summer break into a project, to see what this community is really like :)

It'll be great to get to know some of you guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Most of us are A holes honestly but welcome.
 
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Originally posted by Criminal Mind

I discovered this whole community a few days ago picking up Neil Strauss' book "The Game".
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Looks like you discovered the wrong community.

:crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol actually, I was on a few PUA sites, and couldn't find any real active communities that used the bulletin board system of operation like this one, so I joined this one at the suggestion of a PUA reccomended links.

O great, another KBDJ.

He's had 37 posts in 1 day!
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LOL, if you think that's bad, you should see some of the really really, really, really rediculously large communities. Some people there get really bad. Actually, there just happened to be some topics which looked interesting to me :)

To the original poster... are you here to learn to be a Don Juan or a pickup artist?
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I'm here to get a well-rounded education.
 
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nice website
 
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I just don't understand why "the game" got so much attention even before it was released to the public, while hundreds of different types of books are released and never get noticed.

Isn't the Game supposed to be a hidden thing, under the counter?

Its like telling everyone all about the drug dealing underworld. And actually teaching common people the tricks of the trade. If Neil Strauss did the exact same thing about Drug Dealing.. He'd probably be dead by now.

You know what.. I don't need Neil Strauss or his books. He does look like metrosexual. :down:
 
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I'm guessing the game got so much publicity, because it was the "first" book marketed in its category... couple that with the words "Secret Undeground Soceity"... well there you go.

A commonality to all man, and first-mover advantages... you got a winner.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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