"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi all (introduction)

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As this is my first post, and I'm somewhat hoping that with what little free time I have, I can post on this site, I figured I may as well 'formally' introduce myself.

My name is Tom, I'm 17, 5'10 (or 5'11, haven't measured in awhile), 165 (approximately) and I'm currently in Grade 11 ( but I tell people 12 ) in highschool (it's because I took a year off).
I'm pretty decent with talking to females, but I am so inexperienced (I'm not going to say bad, because thats not the case, I just don't get enough practise) at relationships/gettin sex so I decided to register on these forums to ask questions from time to time and et cetera.

I've learned a decent amount of things off of the 'articles' on this site, but realised that it's entirely too possible to 'overthink' asking out females and what not, I mean it's good to get tips every now and then, if you're struggling, but that doesn't mean I'm going to take every single piece of advise I get on this site, I plan on yoinkin the best advise (if I get any, that is) that works for me, and forgetting the rest.

That being said, Hi everybody.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmmm....uhhh...howdy??




















I never understood why people made these intro post.:confused:
 

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so they don't feel like they are being austracized if they're first post is needing help with some "afc" problem they have.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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welcome stranger... :D
 

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Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
Welcome to the forums!

(good word btw vincent)
yeah!

if only it were a word :(
 

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lol, vincent's words got like an australian touch to it or something

Anyways good mindset Tom, take wut you need, and leave the rest for you to find out yourself
 

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hey, jsut remember it is all about confidence
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Porky
yeah!

if only it were a word :(
Hey shut up:p

I was in the middle of a 1500 word paper, I didn't care how you spelt ostracized.

I spelt it fonically (lol at bad joke lol).

:D
 

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Don, you sound like some creepy cult member welcoming me like that :D hehehehe, just kidding of course.

Anywho, I will definitely be sure to lurk the forums and read the bible and post my (hopefully) many experiences in the future about my being a pim... I mean a DJ.
 
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