"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi all (introduction)

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As this is my first post, and I'm somewhat hoping that with what little free time I have, I can post on this site, I figured I may as well 'formally' introduce myself.

My name is Tom, I'm 17, 5'10 (or 5'11, haven't measured in awhile), 165 (approximately) and I'm currently in Grade 11 ( but I tell people 12 ) in highschool (it's because I took a year off).
I'm pretty decent with talking to females, but I am so inexperienced (I'm not going to say bad, because thats not the case, I just don't get enough practise) at relationships/gettin sex so I decided to register on these forums to ask questions from time to time and et cetera.

I've learned a decent amount of things off of the 'articles' on this site, but realised that it's entirely too possible to 'overthink' asking out females and what not, I mean it's good to get tips every now and then, if you're struggling, but that doesn't mean I'm going to take every single piece of advise I get on this site, I plan on yoinkin the best advise (if I get any, that is) that works for me, and forgetting the rest.

That being said, Hi everybody.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hmmm....uhhh...howdy??




















I never understood why people made these intro post.:confused:
 

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so they don't feel like they are being austracized if they're first post is needing help with some "afc" problem they have.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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welcome stranger... :D
 

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Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
Welcome to the forums!

(good word btw vincent)
yeah!

if only it were a word :(
 

Microphone Fiend

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lol, vincent's words got like an australian touch to it or something

Anyways good mindset Tom, take wut you need, and leave the rest for you to find out yourself
 

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hey, jsut remember it is all about confidence
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by Porky
yeah!

if only it were a word :(
Hey shut up:p

I was in the middle of a 1500 word paper, I didn't care how you spelt ostracized.

I spelt it fonically (lol at bad joke lol).

:D
 

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Don, you sound like some creepy cult member welcoming me like that :D hehehehe, just kidding of course.

Anywho, I will definitely be sure to lurk the forums and read the bible and post my (hopefully) many experiences in the future about my being a pim... I mean a DJ.
 
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