"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hHow to make two chicks jealous?

iliketennis

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I've been lurking here for a while and finally registered, anyway...

I play a lot tennis and told two separate girls who don't know each other that I'd play/teach them how to play tomorrow. One of them (brunette) is in college with me, I sit next to her in a once a week class, and the other (blonde) I've played tennis with maybe 3-4 times.

The blonde talks to me about her semi-boyfriend from time to time, so I think she has written me off as a friend. On facebook tonight when she asked where we were playing I said "we'll play at the park because katie hits balls all over the place". She said "who is katie?" and i immediately logged off. want her to be curious/jealous.

So how do I work this thing tomorrow? Any advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, just have fun, and laugh at them when you start noticing them subtlety or not so subtlety competing for you. You won't have to do much, just smile and have a good time, you're already in a position of advantage.
 

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tobylikestennis said:
The blonde talks to me about her semi-boyfriend from time to time, so I think she has written me off as a friend. On facebook tonight when she asked where we were playing I said "we'll play at the park because katie hits balls all over the place". She said "who is katie?" and i immediately logged off. want her to be curious/jealous.
LOL well played so far. I'd say pay attention mostly to the one you're not targeting, flirt with her. Act mostly indifferent to your main target but kino her a bit and it should confuse her a bit which is good. Then towards the end of the day you can pile on the kino on your main target and go for the kiss close.

Well that's what I'd do anyway lol.
 

iliketennis

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well the brunette cancelled today, so i texted the blonde chick and told her something came up with the brunette so i couldn't play. not sure where to go from here.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Send an e-mail to both... "Ladies, when is the rain date for tennis & burgers following"? then... do exactly as suggested by above DJ EVOKEN. He sounds like he knows what he's doin.
 
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