"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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iliketennis

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I've been lurking here for a while and finally registered, anyway...

I play a lot tennis and told two separate girls who don't know each other that I'd play/teach them how to play tomorrow. One of them (brunette) is in college with me, I sit next to her in a once a week class, and the other (blonde) I've played tennis with maybe 3-4 times.

The blonde talks to me about her semi-boyfriend from time to time, so I think she has written me off as a friend. On facebook tonight when she asked where we were playing I said "we'll play at the park because katie hits balls all over the place". She said "who is katie?" and i immediately logged off. want her to be curious/jealous.

So how do I work this thing tomorrow? Any advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude, just have fun, and laugh at them when you start noticing them subtlety or not so subtlety competing for you. You won't have to do much, just smile and have a good time, you're already in a position of advantage.
 

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tobylikestennis said:
The blonde talks to me about her semi-boyfriend from time to time, so I think she has written me off as a friend. On facebook tonight when she asked where we were playing I said "we'll play at the park because katie hits balls all over the place". She said "who is katie?" and i immediately logged off. want her to be curious/jealous.
LOL well played so far. I'd say pay attention mostly to the one you're not targeting, flirt with her. Act mostly indifferent to your main target but kino her a bit and it should confuse her a bit which is good. Then towards the end of the day you can pile on the kino on your main target and go for the kiss close.

Well that's what I'd do anyway lol.
 

iliketennis

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well the brunette cancelled today, so i texted the blonde chick and told her something came up with the brunette so i couldn't play. not sure where to go from here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Send an e-mail to both... "Ladies, when is the rain date for tennis & burgers following"? then... do exactly as suggested by above DJ EVOKEN. He sounds like he knows what he's doin.
 
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