"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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iliketennis

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I've been lurking here for a while and finally registered, anyway...

I play a lot tennis and told two separate girls who don't know each other that I'd play/teach them how to play tomorrow. One of them (brunette) is in college with me, I sit next to her in a once a week class, and the other (blonde) I've played tennis with maybe 3-4 times.

The blonde talks to me about her semi-boyfriend from time to time, so I think she has written me off as a friend. On facebook tonight when she asked where we were playing I said "we'll play at the park because katie hits balls all over the place". She said "who is katie?" and i immediately logged off. want her to be curious/jealous.

So how do I work this thing tomorrow? Any advice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude, just have fun, and laugh at them when you start noticing them subtlety or not so subtlety competing for you. You won't have to do much, just smile and have a good time, you're already in a position of advantage.
 

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tobylikestennis said:
The blonde talks to me about her semi-boyfriend from time to time, so I think she has written me off as a friend. On facebook tonight when she asked where we were playing I said "we'll play at the park because katie hits balls all over the place". She said "who is katie?" and i immediately logged off. want her to be curious/jealous.
LOL well played so far. I'd say pay attention mostly to the one you're not targeting, flirt with her. Act mostly indifferent to your main target but kino her a bit and it should confuse her a bit which is good. Then towards the end of the day you can pile on the kino on your main target and go for the kiss close.

Well that's what I'd do anyway lol.
 

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well the brunette cancelled today, so i texted the blonde chick and told her something came up with the brunette so i couldn't play. not sure where to go from here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Send an e-mail to both... "Ladies, when is the rain date for tennis & burgers following"? then... do exactly as suggested by above DJ EVOKEN. He sounds like he knows what he's doin.
 
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