"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hHow to make two chicks jealous?

iliketennis

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I've been lurking here for a while and finally registered, anyway...

I play a lot tennis and told two separate girls who don't know each other that I'd play/teach them how to play tomorrow. One of them (brunette) is in college with me, I sit next to her in a once a week class, and the other (blonde) I've played tennis with maybe 3-4 times.

The blonde talks to me about her semi-boyfriend from time to time, so I think she has written me off as a friend. On facebook tonight when she asked where we were playing I said "we'll play at the park because katie hits balls all over the place". She said "who is katie?" and i immediately logged off. want her to be curious/jealous.

So how do I work this thing tomorrow? Any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude, just have fun, and laugh at them when you start noticing them subtlety or not so subtlety competing for you. You won't have to do much, just smile and have a good time, you're already in a position of advantage.
 

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tobylikestennis said:
The blonde talks to me about her semi-boyfriend from time to time, so I think she has written me off as a friend. On facebook tonight when she asked where we were playing I said "we'll play at the park because katie hits balls all over the place". She said "who is katie?" and i immediately logged off. want her to be curious/jealous.
LOL well played so far. I'd say pay attention mostly to the one you're not targeting, flirt with her. Act mostly indifferent to your main target but kino her a bit and it should confuse her a bit which is good. Then towards the end of the day you can pile on the kino on your main target and go for the kiss close.

Well that's what I'd do anyway lol.
 

iliketennis

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well the brunette cancelled today, so i texted the blonde chick and told her something came up with the brunette so i couldn't play. not sure where to go from here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Send an e-mail to both... "Ladies, when is the rain date for tennis & burgers following"? then... do exactly as suggested by above DJ EVOKEN. He sounds like he knows what he's doin.
 
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