hey losers. speak up!

[xomel]

so whos stuck at home doing nothing on a saturday night?

lets make a club.

 

[joecollapoppa]

Called what? the losers club?

 

[xomel]

the "its saturday night and im stuck at home on the computer being a loser" club.

 

[frivolousz21]

im home now about to go to party.

going to start my assualt tonight!

wish me luck.

wait I dont need luck!

 

[GuitarOnFire7]

The party is tomorrow. Come back then.

 

[Ever onward]

You know I was at the video store tonight, I saw this cute girl who works there and I've talked to her a couple of times but I just can't get the nerve to ask her out.

I've been thinking about this, let's get a bunch of guys together who just can't approach women and make a pact, American Pie style.

The Pact will be to pick out a girl (target) during the week and ask her for her number by a certain day. Like Wednesday or something. Then we all report in with what happened.

So in my case with my girl at the video store I would use the JWHITE method.

me: can I ask u a quick question?
her: sure
me: are u single?

she will either say yes or no and depending on her response I tell her that I have to get going and ask for her number. It's a simple straight-to-the-point method that works.

So what do you guys say, is this a good idea? Shall we make a pact?

 

[blue17]

So a Jerry Seinfeld and George Costanza pact eh?

 

[rgeere]

I just got back from a karaoki party, where a hot south american chick that I met a week ago approached me with a smile and shyly asked "What happend to you?"

I love saturday nights ...

 

[CapiCrimini]

I just got back from Indian Fest a while ago... they had some nice girls. I could have stayed longer, but the bugs started to bite, and I was getting tired after being there most of the day.... I was thier this morning, then came home then went back... long day... I only went because my bro volenteered and got free tickets...

Some hot girls there. Listened to some music saw some tight ass stone knifes and Indian stuff. Listened to some music and skits. Watched the lake, picked up a fee numbers, watched pert of the Indian film festival. headed home.

That was my day... oh yeah... riding around in the golf carts being a jack ass and having fun. ... I really wasn't supposed to do that.

now I'm home... reading my college text book on Marketing from NorthWestern, my leg muscle is twitching and It's bothering me... I don't know why... I mean it's my upper calf one... I never use it... feels wierd... also typing this getting ready to go to sleep.

 

[joecollapoppa]

Yall wanna play American Pie? Ok I call Stiffler! grow some balls and ask them out or you're neva gonna score LOL

 

[Vincent]

Today was depressing.

Football sucked, watched whole 10 yards, better than i expected. Sat around watching athf. Ugh, i hate my life Well i need to take some damn action!

 

[Ever onward]

Okay so I guess no one is up for the pact, isn't anybody besides me afraid to approach women? I guess not...

 

[Soma]

Not in need of a pact but I'll offer some info...


"me: can I ask u a quick question?
her: sure
me: are u single?"


If you're gonna say that, do NOT say "can I ask you a quick question?" You'll send a weird vibe and unless the girl is extremely attracted to you she'll blow you off.

You're trying to come in confident and direct as hell with the "are you single" line but you preface it with wishy washy opener. Doesn't flow at all.

If you really want to say it cut the first part out.

U- Hello.
Her- Hi.
U- Are you single?

Before I go...

If you've ever chatted this girl at all or held eye contact with her...or in any way whatsoever shown interest in her do not say the line above. Again, it won't flow. You're trying to be direct and confident but it's taken you HOW LONG to actually talk to this girl?! Your words will show confidence but your lack of action will show your true insecurity. Blow off. If this is the case, then just chat her up like a normal person. Tell her a short little story about something funny that's happened to you recently. Keep it short and sweet. If it goes well, as you're about to leave say, "Hey, we should hang out sometime."

There are ton of more in-depth things but since you're just starting out this would be your best bet.


-Soma

 

[Ever onward]

I disagree. Saying "Can I ask you a quick question?" catches her off guard. She might think I'm going to ask her for the time or help finding a movie or something and her shields will be down.

It works for JWhite and he stole it from David D. I think it's worth a shot.

The whole point of the thing is to grab my balls and do the approach, not whether I get rejected or not.

I think it is better to keep it as simple as possible and not over complicate things because I will be nervous enough as is.

Thanks for the advice anyways.

 

[Soma]

Good god. Bwahahahah.

Alright man. Do it your way.

hahah