"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey its good to have things back up!

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But I have a question that I've been pondering for about a week now......


When I'm at the club or just out and about.....girls telling me I look familiar....like they know me from somewhere????

I used to have a very public job so I used to meet all kinds of folks so being recognized is totally possible.....

I just get tired of hearing it, especially since I can never figure out if I can remember them or if they're just hitting on me...and I never know what to say.....drives me nuts.....probably cause I'm usually drunk and they never seem cute enough?

Oh well just a problem I've been having lately.....good to see things back up looks good
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I have no idea why you are moaning about this.

You are basically saying that girls are coming up to YOU and opening a conversation with you, and you have a problem with that?

USE IT! If a girl comes up to you and says that just smile and say...

you: you are like the 5th girl that has said to me tonight. It's strange. Maybe I'm just a dreamy kinda guy! ;-)

that is c+f, you are kinda negging her because you are saying "hey, you are not so original"

now get out there and f-close some of these women that are coming up to you!
 
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Maybe I didn't ask that right......

I was asking for advise on things to say after they come up to me.....That's what I've been having trouble with....just looking for some tips.

I try to run with it but I usually come off as a **** or I forget the funny responses...its more of a lack of preperation on my part, cause this happens to me almost every time I go out.

Thanks for the tip though:up:
 
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If you are both drunk and don't find them attractive then you have to reasons not to hit on them. Let them down and enjoy your drunkeness instead. Sex while being drunk way overrated.
 
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Let me add something here.....

Most of the time these women are funky fugly fat chicks or just BBW's anyway...sometimes I get a cutie but she's usually wasted at the time.....
Hell I can almost say that I'm tired of getting hit on by women I really would rather not talk to.......

I probably should have said that earlier
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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El MonoLoco said:
Let me add something here.....

Most of the time these women are funky fugly fat chicks or just BBW's anyway...sometimes I get a cutie but she's usually wasted at the time.....
Hell I can almost say that I'm tired of getting hit on by women I really would rather not talk to.......

I probably should have said that earlier
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I know the feeling. Don't talk to the girls, just let them down, tell them you have a girlfreind and have a good time instead. It's what I do nowadays when I'm out. Getting girls in bars is worthless, especially if you are drunk and can't tell how they look.
 
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