"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey its good to have things back up!

El MonoLoco

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But I have a question that I've been pondering for about a week now......


When I'm at the club or just out and about.....girls telling me I look familiar....like they know me from somewhere????

I used to have a very public job so I used to meet all kinds of folks so being recognized is totally possible.....

I just get tired of hearing it, especially since I can never figure out if I can remember them or if they're just hitting on me...and I never know what to say.....drives me nuts.....probably cause I'm usually drunk and they never seem cute enough?

Oh well just a problem I've been having lately.....good to see things back up looks good
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have no idea why you are moaning about this.

You are basically saying that girls are coming up to YOU and opening a conversation with you, and you have a problem with that?

USE IT! If a girl comes up to you and says that just smile and say...

you: you are like the 5th girl that has said to me tonight. It's strange. Maybe I'm just a dreamy kinda guy! ;-)

that is c+f, you are kinda negging her because you are saying "hey, you are not so original"

now get out there and f-close some of these women that are coming up to you!
 

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Maybe I didn't ask that right......

I was asking for advise on things to say after they come up to me.....That's what I've been having trouble with....just looking for some tips.

I try to run with it but I usually come off as a **** or I forget the funny responses...its more of a lack of preperation on my part, cause this happens to me almost every time I go out.

Thanks for the tip though:up:
 

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If you are both drunk and don't find them attractive then you have to reasons not to hit on them. Let them down and enjoy your drunkeness instead. Sex while being drunk way overrated.
 

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Let me add something here.....

Most of the time these women are funky fugly fat chicks or just BBW's anyway...sometimes I get a cutie but she's usually wasted at the time.....
Hell I can almost say that I'm tired of getting hit on by women I really would rather not talk to.......

I probably should have said that earlier
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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El MonoLoco said:
Let me add something here.....

Most of the time these women are funky fugly fat chicks or just BBW's anyway...sometimes I get a cutie but she's usually wasted at the time.....
Hell I can almost say that I'm tired of getting hit on by women I really would rather not talk to.......

I probably should have said that earlier
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I know the feeling. Don't talk to the girls, just let them down, tell them you have a girlfreind and have a good time instead. It's what I do nowadays when I'm out. Getting girls in bars is worthless, especially if you are drunk and can't tell how they look.
 
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