"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey its good to have things back up!

El MonoLoco

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But I have a question that I've been pondering for about a week now......


When I'm at the club or just out and about.....girls telling me I look familiar....like they know me from somewhere????

I used to have a very public job so I used to meet all kinds of folks so being recognized is totally possible.....

I just get tired of hearing it, especially since I can never figure out if I can remember them or if they're just hitting on me...and I never know what to say.....drives me nuts.....probably cause I'm usually drunk and they never seem cute enough?

Oh well just a problem I've been having lately.....good to see things back up looks good
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have no idea why you are moaning about this.

You are basically saying that girls are coming up to YOU and opening a conversation with you, and you have a problem with that?

USE IT! If a girl comes up to you and says that just smile and say...

you: you are like the 5th girl that has said to me tonight. It's strange. Maybe I'm just a dreamy kinda guy! ;-)

that is c+f, you are kinda negging her because you are saying "hey, you are not so original"

now get out there and f-close some of these women that are coming up to you!
 

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Maybe I didn't ask that right......

I was asking for advise on things to say after they come up to me.....That's what I've been having trouble with....just looking for some tips.

I try to run with it but I usually come off as a **** or I forget the funny responses...its more of a lack of preperation on my part, cause this happens to me almost every time I go out.

Thanks for the tip though:up:
 

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If you are both drunk and don't find them attractive then you have to reasons not to hit on them. Let them down and enjoy your drunkeness instead. Sex while being drunk way overrated.
 

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Let me add something here.....

Most of the time these women are funky fugly fat chicks or just BBW's anyway...sometimes I get a cutie but she's usually wasted at the time.....
Hell I can almost say that I'm tired of getting hit on by women I really would rather not talk to.......

I probably should have said that earlier
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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El MonoLoco said:
Let me add something here.....

Most of the time these women are funky fugly fat chicks or just BBW's anyway...sometimes I get a cutie but she's usually wasted at the time.....
Hell I can almost say that I'm tired of getting hit on by women I really would rather not talk to.......

I probably should have said that earlier
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I know the feeling. Don't talk to the girls, just let them down, tell them you have a girlfreind and have a good time instead. It's what I do nowadays when I'm out. Getting girls in bars is worthless, especially if you are drunk and can't tell how they look.
 
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