"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey its good to have things back up!

El MonoLoco

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But I have a question that I've been pondering for about a week now......


When I'm at the club or just out and about.....girls telling me I look familiar....like they know me from somewhere????

I used to have a very public job so I used to meet all kinds of folks so being recognized is totally possible.....

I just get tired of hearing it, especially since I can never figure out if I can remember them or if they're just hitting on me...and I never know what to say.....drives me nuts.....probably cause I'm usually drunk and they never seem cute enough?

Oh well just a problem I've been having lately.....good to see things back up looks good
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have no idea why you are moaning about this.

You are basically saying that girls are coming up to YOU and opening a conversation with you, and you have a problem with that?

USE IT! If a girl comes up to you and says that just smile and say...

you: you are like the 5th girl that has said to me tonight. It's strange. Maybe I'm just a dreamy kinda guy! ;-)

that is c+f, you are kinda negging her because you are saying "hey, you are not so original"

now get out there and f-close some of these women that are coming up to you!
 

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Maybe I didn't ask that right......

I was asking for advise on things to say after they come up to me.....That's what I've been having trouble with....just looking for some tips.

I try to run with it but I usually come off as a **** or I forget the funny responses...its more of a lack of preperation on my part, cause this happens to me almost every time I go out.

Thanks for the tip though:up:
 

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If you are both drunk and don't find them attractive then you have to reasons not to hit on them. Let them down and enjoy your drunkeness instead. Sex while being drunk way overrated.
 

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Let me add something here.....

Most of the time these women are funky fugly fat chicks or just BBW's anyway...sometimes I get a cutie but she's usually wasted at the time.....
Hell I can almost say that I'm tired of getting hit on by women I really would rather not talk to.......

I probably should have said that earlier
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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El MonoLoco said:
Let me add something here.....

Most of the time these women are funky fugly fat chicks or just BBW's anyway...sometimes I get a cutie but she's usually wasted at the time.....
Hell I can almost say that I'm tired of getting hit on by women I really would rather not talk to.......

I probably should have said that earlier
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I know the feeling. Don't talk to the girls, just let them down, tell them you have a girlfreind and have a good time instead. It's what I do nowadays when I'm out. Getting girls in bars is worthless, especially if you are drunk and can't tell how they look.
 
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