"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crissco

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What can I say after she responds with something along the lines of, we did, or who are you... to keep it going?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ditch the facebook game and get out in the real world.
 

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I would pull a routine where I acted like I remembered her. Explaining a crazy outlandish story that depicted a DHV. Something funny that is obviously not true. When she replies back confused or saying no then have her explain where she really met you. That way the conversation isn't so black and white. You gotta slip a few clever things in here and there to keep it fresh. Good luck.
 

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Scars said:
I would pull a routine where I acted like I remembered her. Explaining a crazy outlandish story that depicted a DHV. Something funny that is obviously not true. When she replies back confused or saying no then have her explain where she really met you. That way the conversation isn't so black and white. You gotta slip a few clever things in here and there to keep it fresh. Good luck.
Thanks for the advice bro
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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