"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crissco

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What can I say after she responds with something along the lines of, we did, or who are you... to keep it going?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ditch the facebook game and get out in the real world.
 

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I would pull a routine where I acted like I remembered her. Explaining a crazy outlandish story that depicted a DHV. Something funny that is obviously not true. When she replies back confused or saying no then have her explain where she really met you. That way the conversation isn't so black and white. You gotta slip a few clever things in here and there to keep it fresh. Good luck.
 

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Scars said:
I would pull a routine where I acted like I remembered her. Explaining a crazy outlandish story that depicted a DHV. Something funny that is obviously not true. When she replies back confused or saying no then have her explain where she really met you. That way the conversation isn't so black and white. You gotta slip a few clever things in here and there to keep it fresh. Good luck.
Thanks for the advice bro
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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