"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey. I think we've met before (Facebook)

Crissco

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What can I say after she responds with something along the lines of, we did, or who are you... to keep it going?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ditch the facebook game and get out in the real world.
 

Scars

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I would pull a routine where I acted like I remembered her. Explaining a crazy outlandish story that depicted a DHV. Something funny that is obviously not true. When she replies back confused or saying no then have her explain where she really met you. That way the conversation isn't so black and white. You gotta slip a few clever things in here and there to keep it fresh. Good luck.
 

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Scars said:
I would pull a routine where I acted like I remembered her. Explaining a crazy outlandish story that depicted a DHV. Something funny that is obviously not true. When she replies back confused or saying no then have her explain where she really met you. That way the conversation isn't so black and white. You gotta slip a few clever things in here and there to keep it fresh. Good luck.
Thanks for the advice bro
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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