"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Hey I know you from somewhere!"

sharpshooter

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Tried this on a chick today who was walking with her friend. I pointed to the hot one and said it as they were turning/walking. Her friend was like "Yeah, she works at a bank". I was like ooh a bank, I would have sworn you went to highschool with me. Blah blah, they never really payed attention (i was sorta walking away as I said it too and I didn't really care either)

worst/most pointless cold approach EVER :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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il_duce

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Well, don't you think if you really did know her from somewhere you wouldn't be walking away from her, but instead walking toward her?

No wonder they didn't buy it. They could tell by your actions.

Of course you didn't really know her anyway, but still, you gotta practice what you preach.
 

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I bet you'd be feeling worse if you didn't say anything.
 

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at that point i'd made so many cold approaches that I was just doing it for the heck of it lol. I just needed a quick excuse to say something to them, and that was the first thing that popped into my head. I didn't really care or persue it

that's why I declare it the most pointless cold approach ever
 

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haha i did that a bar once when I was drunk as sh!t. Dude, they never ever fall for that.... I think every other guy on campus uses it...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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