kingwilliam
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this seem way over the top for me....
Hang on while I get the scotch tape out my pocket that I have with me
Hang on while I get the scotch tape out my pocket that I have with me
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hey, I just thought of a great C/F opener (a cant miss Dong Fu special)
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If done properly, I say it could work. alot of people cant keep a steady stream for conversation so they say no way but i have seen similar pickups become successful so I say try it. hell, I'll try it too, and why is everyone panicing this is funny whats risking a new technique on one girl matter. there will be 50 to 100 more in there.
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If we do try this, I think having the bartender hold the tape and book behind the bar for you would be best. Then you can ask the bartender for the stuff, so it seems a little more spontaneous.J-Bone said:
I cant imagine actually walking around with the book, but I think it would be funny to pull it out.
He he.. I love you GWA.. whenever someone criticizes Elstud.. he comes back with a 10 paragraph reply saying that he doesn't give a **** what they think.. Which in itself creates a contradiction, I mean why write a super long response saying you don't give a **** if you really don't? When Elstud criticizes you on the other hand.. you say something which PROVES you don't really give a ****..Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Yeah, I like this kid too. Maybe one day he'll be the true vagina wizard and enlighten us all to the Alamar Methodrobstar said:
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For sure this is one of the most gimicky, ridiculous things I've thought of. But my philosophy is if your gonna use some kind of pick-up gimicks, why not make it as ridiculous as you can, be honest about it, and spend time with your mark making fun of this kind of stuff.ketostix said:The funny thing is a lot of guys do try stuff this far fetched and gimmicky lol. Dongfu just carry the book with you around the bar. It'll make a great peacocking/prop item
Instead of being some creepy, stressy, serious wierdo trying to get over on women, being all woried about the outcome, and or, being discovered.
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Why would you do this sh!t? If you need to do magic tricks to get girls you mite aswell just stay at home.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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why thank you.Dongfu said:Yeah, I like this kid too. Maybe one day he'll be the true vagina wizard and enlighten us all to the Alamar Method
when I become good enough, pvssy will magically open up, just for me!
haha thats a long fvcking way to go!!
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Honestly, the best part of the OP was the signature. I doubt highly that you would ever get a woman in a club to sit still as you try to pull this off.
You want to get clever, use the book as a prop adn get girls to think you are "learning as you go" Once you have built some rapport (as in spending more than five minutes talking with you) you might have your shot at reading to them.
Seriously, think about the venue and your idea, they are not synching up here. Dance at a club, flirt in a club, read in a library or mall.
You want to get clever, use the book as a prop adn get girls to think you are "learning as you go" Once you have built some rapport (as in spending more than five minutes talking with you) you might have your shot at reading to them.
Seriously, think about the venue and your idea, they are not synching up here. Dance at a club, flirt in a club, read in a library or mall.
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I got an even better idea... Why not just bring some doggy treats hand it to the girls. Then do some cool doggy tricks and let them reward you when they think what you do is funny. /sarcasm
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It's not a magic trick.TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
It's funny to me when I post an idea like this that is supposed to be funny. And then guys get all serious about it.
The fact that people get so uptight about a suggestion like this clues us in to how he probably acts around women.
I throw stuff out there, and then watch the reflections come back. We can learn alot about where people are at in this community simple by observing their reactions to posts like this
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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i'd say it would work out best for the person who thought it up and even then it's only a faint murmur of a chance to work on like a party girl or something.
personally i'd never use it cos its faux-smooth, fake and not me. how are you going to follow that up?
exude charisma and they will come
personally i'd never use it cos its faux-smooth, fake and not me. how are you going to follow that up?
exude charisma and they will come
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That's for sure. ANd further proving the the MM works best for Mystery. Everyone has to ultimately come to terms with their own style, whatever that is.juice veteran said:
Right again. But it is me. All I really care about is having fun and taking things to a ridiculous level. Sometime I'll share with you guys my idea for the reality show, "The Disagreeable Bachelor." A parody of the real show.juice veteran said:
I'm the master of seamless transitions Even if I opened this way, I could easily move the interaction in any direction I wanted it to go. It's easy. But you cant realize that until you know that.juice veteran said:
just so suave
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yeah that doesn't sound too good in a practical situation...too gimicky for me. Plus if you're trying to do a trick like that you can't dance around all the steps, they will lose patience. Good luck
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.