"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey, I just thought of a great C/F opener (a cant miss Dong Fu special)

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The Inside Man said:
yeah that doesn't sound too good in a practical situation...too gimicky for me. Plus if you're trying to do a trick like that you can't dance around all the steps, they will lose patience. Good luck
Yes, the point of this is that if you're gonna use gimmicks, like canned material, etc. you might as well make it rediculous and tell the girls your doing it so you can all have laugh together. Instead of actually trying to trick someone, which is a pretty sad approach.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just speaking hypothetically. I don't rely on trick or gimmicks. Want a good opener? HI. yeah I know it's never been said before but it's had the best results for me...when followed by interesting conversation on your part.
 

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the problem is you have to walk around a club holding a book. plus why would u want a girl to be conscious of "the method"
 

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The problem is your trying to use a gimmick, and one that reviels "fight club" at that, for the comfort phase as an opener before you got into C1 (comfort) in the Mystery model. You got to carry your book around as a peacock/prop to get girls to open you and be intriqued, then ignore your targets incessant questioning about why you have a book wity you at a bar and what the books about. NEg her and talk to her fatty UG/****block friend... Ok I'm just talking out of my ass now, but it's obvious you're humoring us with your post here :p.
 

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ketostix said:
The problem is your trying to use a gimmick, and one that reviels "fight club" at that, for the comfort phase as an opener before you got into C1 (comfort) in the Mystery model. You got to carry your book around as a peacock/prop to get girls to open you and be intriqued, then ignore your targets incessant questioning about why you have a book wity you at a bar and what the books about. NEg her and talk to her fatty UG/****block friend... Ok I'm just talking out of my ass now, but it's obvious you're humoring us with your post here :p.
Yes, this is another fun idea. Your on the right track. :yes:

You could just sit down and start reading the book. After the incessant questioning, give your Neggy response "Cant you see I'm reading. Are you always this nosy?" :cuss:

Then you tell her what your reading. When she asks why, you say in a very sarcastic voice, "Because I'm soooo bad at meeting women, I really need this book. It's full of (sarcastic again) reeeally greeeeat, useful information." :rolleyes:

Then you say, "For example, sit down, I want to show you something." This is your first compliance test. :trouble:

She sit's and you tell her that you guys are in c1 and explain it. Then neg her again, explain what negging is, then say sarcastically, "according to this book you are becoming extremely attracted to me now. Can you feel it?" :rolleyes:

Anyway, you get the idea. There are infinite directions you could take this.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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just so suave

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ridiculous, bye bye to dongfu's game
 
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