"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey, i got a quick q

sitnam

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hey whats up people, i was hopin you could help me. i was bonin a girl the other night and i was thinkin that ive never really gotten any feeling from foreplay and all that. like i always hear all the white people i know talk about how they kissed this girl they liked and all and they're so happy, but when i kiss a girl its like i dont feel a thing. i dunno whether i got a problem or if other people are like this too. :confused: i dunno, its starting to freak me out.
if any of u all know whats up or anything id really appreciate ur time and all. thanks :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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triple_ultima

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Originally posted by sitnam
like i always hear all the white people i know talk about how they kissed this girl they liked and all and they're so happy, but when i kiss a girl its like i dont feel a thing.
WTF? Was that really necessary? :mad:
 

sitnam

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lol i dont mean any offence. i dont mean white ppl are like that. im simply saying that my white friends always talk about kissing their girls. every one of my minority friends dont talk about kissing, in fact they avoid it if they can. im not racist or anything. :( sry if you took that offencively.
 

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i dunno dude maybe youre gay..

llol jk..

idk it happened to me once - i dont think i really liked the girl..maybe thats why
 

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If you arnt getting anything from it, either you or the girl prolly arnt doing it right :p I suggest you go practice.

:D

Besides, why are you thinking of your friends when you are boning a chick?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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UltimateScoundrel

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I'd say either you just aren't turned on by that, or you suck at it, and aren't turning her on either.
 

sitnam

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ya i see waht ur all sayin. girls say im a great kisser, and the last girl i was with.. i hear all these great thing about how she is with her mouth. and they're definately wet when im doin it. i mean friends tell me about how much the girl i was with kept talkin about how good i am. "this times for real", its nice to know im not the only one like that :p and heizen i didnt think about my friend til after, and it was like... damn i thought thered be more resistance i know my friend had more (either that or he needs to come to this site :D). and im definately not gay haha, im turned on by women, and turned off by men. and to answer corvette, ive never liked a girl :D maybe thats why i cant seem to have an accual gf instead of friends with benefits :p. thanks for all the replies.
 
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