"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey, i got a quick q

sitnam

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hey whats up people, i was hopin you could help me. i was bonin a girl the other night and i was thinkin that ive never really gotten any feeling from foreplay and all that. like i always hear all the white people i know talk about how they kissed this girl they liked and all and they're so happy, but when i kiss a girl its like i dont feel a thing. i dunno whether i got a problem or if other people are like this too. :confused: i dunno, its starting to freak me out.
if any of u all know whats up or anything id really appreciate ur time and all. thanks :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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triple_ultima

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Originally posted by sitnam
like i always hear all the white people i know talk about how they kissed this girl they liked and all and they're so happy, but when i kiss a girl its like i dont feel a thing.
WTF? Was that really necessary? :mad:
 

sitnam

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lol i dont mean any offence. i dont mean white ppl are like that. im simply saying that my white friends always talk about kissing their girls. every one of my minority friends dont talk about kissing, in fact they avoid it if they can. im not racist or anything. :( sry if you took that offencively.
 

CoRVeTTe6699

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i dunno dude maybe youre gay..

llol jk..

idk it happened to me once - i dont think i really liked the girl..maybe thats why
 

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If you arnt getting anything from it, either you or the girl prolly arnt doing it right :p I suggest you go practice.

:D

Besides, why are you thinking of your friends when you are boning a chick?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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UltimateScoundrel

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I'd say either you just aren't turned on by that, or you suck at it, and aren't turning her on either.
 

sitnam

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ya i see waht ur all sayin. girls say im a great kisser, and the last girl i was with.. i hear all these great thing about how she is with her mouth. and they're definately wet when im doin it. i mean friends tell me about how much the girl i was with kept talkin about how good i am. "this times for real", its nice to know im not the only one like that :p and heizen i didnt think about my friend til after, and it was like... damn i thought thered be more resistance i know my friend had more (either that or he needs to come to this site :D). and im definately not gay haha, im turned on by women, and turned off by men. and to answer corvette, ive never liked a girl :D maybe thats why i cant seem to have an accual gf instead of friends with benefits :p. thanks for all the replies.
 
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