"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hey, i got a quick q

sitnam

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hey whats up people, i was hopin you could help me. i was bonin a girl the other night and i was thinkin that ive never really gotten any feeling from foreplay and all that. like i always hear all the white people i know talk about how they kissed this girl they liked and all and they're so happy, but when i kiss a girl its like i dont feel a thing. i dunno whether i got a problem or if other people are like this too. :confused: i dunno, its starting to freak me out.
if any of u all know whats up or anything id really appreciate ur time and all. thanks :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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triple_ultima

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Originally posted by sitnam
like i always hear all the white people i know talk about how they kissed this girl they liked and all and they're so happy, but when i kiss a girl its like i dont feel a thing.
WTF? Was that really necessary? :mad:
 

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lol i dont mean any offence. i dont mean white ppl are like that. im simply saying that my white friends always talk about kissing their girls. every one of my minority friends dont talk about kissing, in fact they avoid it if they can. im not racist or anything. :( sry if you took that offencively.
 

CoRVeTTe6699

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i dunno dude maybe youre gay..

llol jk..

idk it happened to me once - i dont think i really liked the girl..maybe thats why
 

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If you arnt getting anything from it, either you or the girl prolly arnt doing it right :p I suggest you go practice.

:D

Besides, why are you thinking of your friends when you are boning a chick?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd say either you just aren't turned on by that, or you suck at it, and aren't turning her on either.
 

sitnam

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ya i see waht ur all sayin. girls say im a great kisser, and the last girl i was with.. i hear all these great thing about how she is with her mouth. and they're definately wet when im doin it. i mean friends tell me about how much the girl i was with kept talkin about how good i am. "this times for real", its nice to know im not the only one like that :p and heizen i didnt think about my friend til after, and it was like... damn i thought thered be more resistance i know my friend had more (either that or he needs to come to this site :D). and im definately not gay haha, im turned on by women, and turned off by men. and to answer corvette, ive never liked a girl :D maybe thats why i cant seem to have an accual gf instead of friends with benefits :p. thanks for all the replies.
 
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