"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey, after lurking on this forum for awhile now, I finally registered.

I have never had any trouble attracting theladies since i got my ass in shape and put my attitude and confidence in order.

One of the things I do to pay my way through college is im a server at a restaurant. Now..my question is..

what advice do you guys offer for this scenario


HB comes in...I wait on her table.. I make plenty of eye contact, smiles, her body language clearly tells me shes interested.
except for one problem...her mom..or dad is always with her. If she was alone, I would have no problem sealing the deal (number...etc)

what should I do when that happens? to single her out. (keep in mind, I could get in trouble for hitting on them....not worried about the HB...its an old fashioned parent im worried about)
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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that's hard...parents don't wander off and the HB won't move away because of the control a parent discretely inhibits..

I can't say much really to get her away...because it's hard to do something w/o them noticing..

wait out..?
 
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Oh bro you are in luck. I was in the exact same situation. Slip them a note on a napkin, saying something like "hey I didnt want to bother you while your with your friends/family. But I would like to get to know you. Give this back to me with your number on it." Now I dunno exactly what I used to write cuz it was a while ago but I had a 90% success rate with that technique. And the parents never said anything to me. So just figure out what your gonna put on the napkin and your in the game.
 
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Hahahaha and is she tells the parents and they tell your boss............

It easy for my im a bar tender...
 
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lol I used to work in boston market, so the girls could have told their parents who could have told my boss easily. But no girl is that *****y, trust me he wont get in trouble.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thats a pretty risky assumption. I know a lot of very f**ked up girls but chances are itl be fine.

So yeh try what Grifon said.
 
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Originally posted by griffon65
Oh bro you are in luck. I was in the exact same situation. Slip them a note on a napkin, saying something like "hey I didnt want to bother you while your with your friends/family. But I would like to get to know you. Give this back to me with your number on it." Now I dunno exactly what I used to write cuz it was a while ago but I had a 90% success rate with that technique. And the parents never said anything to me. So just figure out what your gonna put on the napkin and your in the game.
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i'd never do anything where there's proof of anything.

i just know some chick would run around making fun of me showing the note to everyone.

but i'm a pessimist =p
 
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"i just know some chick would run around making fun of me showing the note to everyone."

how can she prove it was you, EVEN if she brought a bunch of girls with her to point you out, guess what......
 
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Originally posted by Docs
"i just know some chick would run around making fun of me showing the note to everyone."

how can she prove it was you, EVEN if she brought a bunch of girls with her to point you out, guess what......
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People don't require proof to believe whatever they want.

You lose by default.

Kinda like rape accusations.



Yeah i know you shouldn't care even if she and everyone else makes fun of you. Do what ya want but i'm not leaving any note.
 
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^^ hey thast cool. All I gotta say is that this approach doesnt rely on personality and has been tested. And from my experiance I've had no troubles with parents or boss. If you dont want to use it thats fine but I'm jsut telling you what works in the real world.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
i'd never do anything where there's proof of anything.

i just know some chick would run around making fun of me showing the note to everyone.

but i'm a pessimist =p
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That was an excellant suggestion about the napkin...too bad its hard even that way becuase the effing 'rents are RIGHT there...Now that i think about it...im gonna write something like that...and wait for them to turn their heads and slip it to her...or go to the bathroom..then I'll pounce that sh!t.

as for someone making fun of me?? not happening... even if a ***** was crazy enough to do that (the odds are .0001%) most girls around her...and certianly the ones I work with would think she was crazy.

besides I can't be embarrassed, esp. by a trick. I rise above it. Her Loss...not mine.
 
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Sometimes you just have to take the risk. Yes it can blow up in your face but thats the risk you take.
 
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