Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hey, after lurking on this forum for awhile now, I finally registered.

I have never had any trouble attracting theladies since i got my ass in shape and put my attitude and confidence in order.

One of the things I do to pay my way through college is im a server at a restaurant. Now..my question is..

what advice do you guys offer for this scenario


HB comes in...I wait on her table.. I make plenty of eye contact, smiles, her body language clearly tells me shes interested.
except for one problem...her mom..or dad is always with her. If she was alone, I would have no problem sealing the deal (number...etc)

what should I do when that happens? to single her out. (keep in mind, I could get in trouble for hitting on them....not worried about the HB...its an old fashioned parent im worried about)
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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that's hard...parents don't wander off and the HB won't move away because of the control a parent discretely inhibits..

I can't say much really to get her away...because it's hard to do something w/o them noticing..

wait out..?
 
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Oh bro you are in luck. I was in the exact same situation. Slip them a note on a napkin, saying something like "hey I didnt want to bother you while your with your friends/family. But I would like to get to know you. Give this back to me with your number on it." Now I dunno exactly what I used to write cuz it was a while ago but I had a 90% success rate with that technique. And the parents never said anything to me. So just figure out what your gonna put on the napkin and your in the game.
 
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Hahahaha and is she tells the parents and they tell your boss............

It easy for my im a bar tender...
 
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lol I used to work in boston market, so the girls could have told their parents who could have told my boss easily. But no girl is that *****y, trust me he wont get in trouble.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thats a pretty risky assumption. I know a lot of very f**ked up girls but chances are itl be fine.

So yeh try what Grifon said.
 
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Originally posted by griffon65
Oh bro you are in luck. I was in the exact same situation. Slip them a note on a napkin, saying something like "hey I didnt want to bother you while your with your friends/family. But I would like to get to know you. Give this back to me with your number on it." Now I dunno exactly what I used to write cuz it was a while ago but I had a 90% success rate with that technique. And the parents never said anything to me. So just figure out what your gonna put on the napkin and your in the game.
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i'd never do anything where there's proof of anything.

i just know some chick would run around making fun of me showing the note to everyone.

but i'm a pessimist =p
 
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"i just know some chick would run around making fun of me showing the note to everyone."

how can she prove it was you, EVEN if she brought a bunch of girls with her to point you out, guess what......
 
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Originally posted by Docs
"i just know some chick would run around making fun of me showing the note to everyone."

how can she prove it was you, EVEN if she brought a bunch of girls with her to point you out, guess what......
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People don't require proof to believe whatever they want.

You lose by default.

Kinda like rape accusations.



Yeah i know you shouldn't care even if she and everyone else makes fun of you. Do what ya want but i'm not leaving any note.
 
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^^ hey thast cool. All I gotta say is that this approach doesnt rely on personality and has been tested. And from my experiance I've had no troubles with parents or boss. If you dont want to use it thats fine but I'm jsut telling you what works in the real world.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
i'd never do anything where there's proof of anything.

i just know some chick would run around making fun of me showing the note to everyone.

but i'm a pessimist =p
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That was an excellant suggestion about the napkin...too bad its hard even that way becuase the effing 'rents are RIGHT there...Now that i think about it...im gonna write something like that...and wait for them to turn their heads and slip it to her...or go to the bathroom..then I'll pounce that sh!t.

as for someone making fun of me?? not happening... even if a ***** was crazy enough to do that (the odds are .0001%) most girls around her...and certianly the ones I work with would think she was crazy.

besides I can't be embarrassed, esp. by a trick. I rise above it. Her Loss...not mine.
 
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Sometimes you just have to take the risk. Yes it can blow up in your face but thats the risk you take.
 
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