"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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THE_ADDMAN

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Who lies more? Men or Women? ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women lie more than blokes.

-Malachi
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
Who lies more? Men or Women? ;)
Women, easily. Of course, that depends on the woman, and that depends on the lie. Women tend to try and convince themselves of wat they're saying. They might even THINK they believe that.

Example: Yesterday, some women were talking with some of my male friends. I overheard them, and joined the conversation late. These are women I've known for several months.

"I want a man of god; and a man who is good with children? That's really sexy. Looks totally aren't an issue." All the women at the table chime in and start agreeing with that mantra.

Sure you do, ladies. Sure you do. :rolleyes:

(Then 5 minutes later, they're talking about how they watch Top Gun for scenes with Tom Cruise's shirt off.) Yeah.

I think most of us are wanting so badly to believe what a woman says, whether we're male or female. There's the main difference.
 

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I heard a quote somewhere, but I'm not exactly sure who to attribute it to.

It went something like this: When men lie, it's "Hey honey, I'm at so and so's house watching the game" When they're actually at a strip club.

When women lie: "The baby's yours"

We as men have to understand the underhandedness of most women. And to make it worse, they do it under the guise that "they really didn't know what they were doing"...Women are much craftier then we'll ever be.

It's true they might try to convince themselves what they do is the truth, or justified, but that doesn't make it so.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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