THE_ADDMAN
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Who lies more? Men or Women? 
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Malachi
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Women lie more than blokes.
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Women, easily. Of course, that depends on the woman, and that depends on the lie. Women tend to try and convince themselves of wat they're saying. They might even THINK they believe that.THE_ADDMAN said:Who lies more? Men or Women?
Example: Yesterday, some women were talking with some of my male friends. I overheard them, and joined the conversation late. These are women I've known for several months.
"I want a man of god; and a man who is good with children? That's really sexy. Looks totally aren't an issue." All the women at the table chime in and start agreeing with that mantra.
Sure you do, ladies. Sure you do.
(Then 5 minutes later, they're talking about how they watch Top Gun for scenes with Tom Cruise's shirt off.) Yeah.
I think most of us are wanting so badly to believe what a woman says, whether we're male or female. There's the main difference.
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I heard a quote somewhere, but I'm not exactly sure who to attribute it to.
It went something like this: When men lie, it's "Hey honey, I'm at so and so's house watching the game" When they're actually at a strip club.
When women lie: "The baby's yours"
We as men have to understand the underhandedness of most women. And to make it worse, they do it under the guise that "they really didn't know what they were doing"...Women are much craftier then we'll ever be.
It's true they might try to convince themselves what they do is the truth, or justified, but that doesn't make it so.
It went something like this: When men lie, it's "Hey honey, I'm at so and so's house watching the game" When they're actually at a strip club.
When women lie: "The baby's yours"
We as men have to understand the underhandedness of most women. And to make it worse, they do it under the guise that "they really didn't know what they were doing"...Women are much craftier then we'll ever be.
It's true they might try to convince themselves what they do is the truth, or justified, but that doesn't make it so.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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easily women...I think