"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys..Got something you might be interested in..

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SilverSonnet

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Hey, i just created a potentially great self-improvement forum, and I was wondering, anyone wanna become moderators and help me out with this one. I'm 14, and I cant do this alone. :eek: So, any experienced SI people, you can be mods, and anybody else who wishes to make use of this....here's the forum, sign up please :D

selfimprovementcentral.com

Thanks guys! Just wanna help you all out, and give something back :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WesCottII

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Hhhm, it's a good idea Ben :up:

Y'know I'm always around to help.
 
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Purple-Haze

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SilverSonnet said:
Hey, i just created a potentially great self-improvement forum, and I was wondering, anyone wanna become moderators and help me out with this one. I'm 14, and I cant do this alone. :eek: So, any experienced SI people, you can be mods, and anybody else who wishes to make use of this....here's the forum, sign up please :D

selfimprovementcentral.com

Thanks guys! Just wanna help you all out, and give something back :up:
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Hey Silver. Good luck with your site!

You're a forward thinking guy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SilverSonnet

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C'mon people! This new site might change your lives, and we've got only 6 registered members. Seems to me like to most of you dont want to change. Fine, face a life of misery. :down:

Come now, and help us to help you! :p
'Cos we love you! :D

Lil' Ben;)
 
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Don't get discouraged because in 30 days, you only have 12 members. Something like this is a long slow process. In fact, hunting for members here is probably the wrong place because this site almost does a similar thing.

You might be better off promoting it in other forums. The best way to do that is not by spamming them but by becoming an excellent poster and being a leader, and living by example.

ps I bet you could get a bunch of recruits at LS.
 
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SilverSonnet

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MacAvoy said:
Don't get discouraged because in 30 days, you only have 12 members. Something like this is a long slow process. In fact, hunting for members here is probably the wrong place because this site almost does a similar thing.

You might be better off promoting it in other forums. The best way to do that is not by spamming them but by becoming an excellent poster and being a leader, and living by example.

ps I bet you could get a bunch of recruits at LS.
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Ok, cheers for the advice. I dont want to steal members away from this. I want them to post on both, as mine and Wes's forum is primarily about Self-Improvement. I'll try LS. ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrNotebook

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hey Silver you're a smart young man. Keep up the good work and stay away from the knuckleheads out there. Keep living to do WHAT YOU LOVE to do and women will come at you with ease. You have the advantage of avoiding the AFC disease way early on. I wish I had access to a site like this when I was your age. Don't ever lose the focus that you have. Remember as you get older you will be pulled in all different directions as your desires gradually change. Also, never follow...but instead choose to develop good leadership skills.
 
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