"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey guys..Got something you might be interested in..

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SilverSonnet

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Hey, i just created a potentially great self-improvement forum, and I was wondering, anyone wanna become moderators and help me out with this one. I'm 14, and I cant do this alone. :eek: So, any experienced SI people, you can be mods, and anybody else who wishes to make use of this....here's the forum, sign up please :D

selfimprovementcentral.com

Thanks guys! Just wanna help you all out, and give something back :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hhhm, it's a good idea Ben :up:

Y'know I'm always around to help.
 
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SilverSonnet said:
Hey, i just created a potentially great self-improvement forum, and I was wondering, anyone wanna become moderators and help me out with this one. I'm 14, and I cant do this alone. :eek: So, any experienced SI people, you can be mods, and anybody else who wishes to make use of this....here's the forum, sign up please :D

selfimprovementcentral.com

Thanks guys! Just wanna help you all out, and give something back :up:
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Hey Silver. Good luck with your site!

You're a forward thinking guy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SilverSonnet

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C'mon people! This new site might change your lives, and we've got only 6 registered members. Seems to me like to most of you dont want to change. Fine, face a life of misery. :down:

Come now, and help us to help you! :p
'Cos we love you! :D

Lil' Ben;)
 
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Don't get discouraged because in 30 days, you only have 12 members. Something like this is a long slow process. In fact, hunting for members here is probably the wrong place because this site almost does a similar thing.

You might be better off promoting it in other forums. The best way to do that is not by spamming them but by becoming an excellent poster and being a leader, and living by example.

ps I bet you could get a bunch of recruits at LS.
 
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MacAvoy said:
Don't get discouraged because in 30 days, you only have 12 members. Something like this is a long slow process. In fact, hunting for members here is probably the wrong place because this site almost does a similar thing.

You might be better off promoting it in other forums. The best way to do that is not by spamming them but by becoming an excellent poster and being a leader, and living by example.

ps I bet you could get a bunch of recruits at LS.
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Ok, cheers for the advice. I dont want to steal members away from this. I want them to post on both, as mine and Wes's forum is primarily about Self-Improvement. I'll try LS. ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey Silver you're a smart young man. Keep up the good work and stay away from the knuckleheads out there. Keep living to do WHAT YOU LOVE to do and women will come at you with ease. You have the advantage of avoiding the AFC disease way early on. I wish I had access to a site like this when I was your age. Don't ever lose the focus that you have. Remember as you get older you will be pulled in all different directions as your desires gradually change. Also, never follow...but instead choose to develop good leadership skills.
 
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