"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys..Got something you might be interested in..

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SilverSonnet

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Hey, i just created a potentially great self-improvement forum, and I was wondering, anyone wanna become moderators and help me out with this one. I'm 14, and I cant do this alone. :eek: So, any experienced SI people, you can be mods, and anybody else who wishes to make use of this....here's the forum, sign up please :D

selfimprovementcentral.com

Thanks guys! Just wanna help you all out, and give something back :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hhhm, it's a good idea Ben :up:

Y'know I'm always around to help.
 
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SilverSonnet said:
Hey, i just created a potentially great self-improvement forum, and I was wondering, anyone wanna become moderators and help me out with this one. I'm 14, and I cant do this alone. :eek: So, any experienced SI people, you can be mods, and anybody else who wishes to make use of this....here's the forum, sign up please :D

selfimprovementcentral.com

Thanks guys! Just wanna help you all out, and give something back :up:
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Hey Silver. Good luck with your site!

You're a forward thinking guy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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C'mon people! This new site might change your lives, and we've got only 6 registered members. Seems to me like to most of you dont want to change. Fine, face a life of misery. :down:

Come now, and help us to help you! :p
'Cos we love you! :D

Lil' Ben;)
 
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Don't get discouraged because in 30 days, you only have 12 members. Something like this is a long slow process. In fact, hunting for members here is probably the wrong place because this site almost does a similar thing.

You might be better off promoting it in other forums. The best way to do that is not by spamming them but by becoming an excellent poster and being a leader, and living by example.

ps I bet you could get a bunch of recruits at LS.
 
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MacAvoy said:
Don't get discouraged because in 30 days, you only have 12 members. Something like this is a long slow process. In fact, hunting for members here is probably the wrong place because this site almost does a similar thing.

You might be better off promoting it in other forums. The best way to do that is not by spamming them but by becoming an excellent poster and being a leader, and living by example.

ps I bet you could get a bunch of recruits at LS.
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Ok, cheers for the advice. I dont want to steal members away from this. I want them to post on both, as mine and Wes's forum is primarily about Self-Improvement. I'll try LS. ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey Silver you're a smart young man. Keep up the good work and stay away from the knuckleheads out there. Keep living to do WHAT YOU LOVE to do and women will come at you with ease. You have the advantage of avoiding the AFC disease way early on. I wish I had access to a site like this when I was your age. Don't ever lose the focus that you have. Remember as you get older you will be pulled in all different directions as your desires gradually change. Also, never follow...but instead choose to develop good leadership skills.
 
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