I am new to this forum and to the Don Juan lifestyle. Anyways, I am here hoping to be the man I was meant to be. My high school years was tough and my self-confidence was shot from those years, but right now I am getting back on my feet. I am reading the Don Juan bible and it's been fun so far. But can you guys sort of guide me on what to read and do in order to be better with women?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Hey guys, Angelo here.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MartyMcFly
Don Juan
I can sorta relate to you man, I was stuck in oneitis with a girl for 2 years of high school, and it really trashed my confidence and my game. But fear not, this website is pretty great, the guys on here are generally helpful and the veterans know what they're talking about. All I have for you is just to practice everything you learn, don't copy it. Just try to incorporate some of the things you learn.
I just want this to be natural and don't feel like I am spitting out scripts. I want to be able to converse with hot women with ease, get numbers, line up dates, get those worthy enough to bed. I want hot women to be a regular part of my life. School, work, exercise, and women 
Korrupt
Banned
Read the ENTIRE DJ Bible, it's good to have the knowledge.. But... No reading is going to make you better with women. The only thing that will make you better with women is improving in the areas that you think you are lacking in by actually practising in the real world.Angelo said:
MartyMcFly
Don Juan
Yeah. Like Korrupt said, Practice makes perfect man. If you want the best you gotta BE the best.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Welcome to the board. The guys above gave you a great tip about practicing.
I've always had a high success percentage with girls even though I never did cold approaches or sarged or approached everything that wore a skirt. One of central concepts I believe is that a guy who has his shiit together (great physique, good job/business, engaging personality w/ game) will naturally fair better at getting women than just some dude who wastes all his time on learning game. So work on improving yourself and you'll get laid a lot more...
My tips:
1. Get into elite shape (top 5-10% of the population).
2. Be a horny sexual mofo.
3. Be intelligent and have a good job/business.
4. Know how to gauge interest, escalate and build sexual tension.
5. Mostly approach girls that give you high IOI. Since you'll be in elite shape you'll have tons of girls that want your weiner in the their mouth... but still make sure you're attracted to them as well.
6. Be an animal in the sack.
In my experience girls LOVE sex... so a key combination of traits that will make you universally attractive is to be in elite shape and be able to phuck like a sewing machine and pleasure the girl. Obviously having a good job/income just adds to things and the level of girls you can attract would probably go up again.
Hope my tips helped. Enjoy your stay here mang.
I've always had a high success percentage with girls even though I never did cold approaches or sarged or approached everything that wore a skirt. One of central concepts I believe is that a guy who has his shiit together (great physique, good job/business, engaging personality w/ game) will naturally fair better at getting women than just some dude who wastes all his time on learning game. So work on improving yourself and you'll get laid a lot more...
My tips:
1. Get into elite shape (top 5-10% of the population).
2. Be a horny sexual mofo.
3. Be intelligent and have a good job/business.
4. Know how to gauge interest, escalate and build sexual tension.
5. Mostly approach girls that give you high IOI. Since you'll be in elite shape you'll have tons of girls that want your weiner in the their mouth... but still make sure you're attracted to them as well.
6. Be an animal in the sack.
In my experience girls LOVE sex... so a key combination of traits that will make you universally attractive is to be in elite shape and be able to phuck like a sewing machine and pleasure the girl. Obviously having a good job/income just adds to things and the level of girls you can attract would probably go up again.
Hope my tips helped. Enjoy your stay here mang.
The Pedantical
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I think the best advice you can get, that trumps all the DJ Bible or anything else on this site, is from David X
Look up his videos on youtube
Look up his videos on youtube