I am new to this forum and to the Don Juan lifestyle. Anyways, I am here hoping to be the man I was meant to be. My high school years was tough and my self-confidence was shot from those years, but right now I am getting back on my feet. I am reading the Don Juan bible and it's been fun so far. But can you guys sort of guide me on what to read and do in order to be better with women?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hey guys, Angelo here.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MartyMcFly
Don Juan
I can sorta relate to you man, I was stuck in oneitis with a girl for 2 years of high school, and it really trashed my confidence and my game. But fear not, this website is pretty great, the guys on here are generally helpful and the veterans know what they're talking about. All I have for you is just to practice everything you learn, don't copy it. Just try to incorporate some of the things you learn.
I just want this to be natural and don't feel like I am spitting out scripts. I want to be able to converse with hot women with ease, get numbers, line up dates, get those worthy enough to bed. I want hot women to be a regular part of my life. School, work, exercise, and women 
Korrupt
Banned
Read the ENTIRE DJ Bible, it's good to have the knowledge.. But... No reading is going to make you better with women. The only thing that will make you better with women is improving in the areas that you think you are lacking in by actually practising in the real world.Angelo said:
MartyMcFly
Don Juan
Yeah. Like Korrupt said, Practice makes perfect man. If you want the best you gotta BE the best.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Welcome to the board. The guys above gave you a great tip about practicing.
I've always had a high success percentage with girls even though I never did cold approaches or sarged or approached everything that wore a skirt. One of central concepts I believe is that a guy who has his shiit together (great physique, good job/business, engaging personality w/ game) will naturally fair better at getting women than just some dude who wastes all his time on learning game. So work on improving yourself and you'll get laid a lot more...
My tips:
1. Get into elite shape (top 5-10% of the population).
2. Be a horny sexual mofo.
3. Be intelligent and have a good job/business.
4. Know how to gauge interest, escalate and build sexual tension.
5. Mostly approach girls that give you high IOI. Since you'll be in elite shape you'll have tons of girls that want your weiner in the their mouth... but still make sure you're attracted to them as well.
6. Be an animal in the sack.
In my experience girls LOVE sex... so a key combination of traits that will make you universally attractive is to be in elite shape and be able to phuck like a sewing machine and pleasure the girl. Obviously having a good job/income just adds to things and the level of girls you can attract would probably go up again.
Hope my tips helped. Enjoy your stay here mang.
I've always had a high success percentage with girls even though I never did cold approaches or sarged or approached everything that wore a skirt. One of central concepts I believe is that a guy who has his shiit together (great physique, good job/business, engaging personality w/ game) will naturally fair better at getting women than just some dude who wastes all his time on learning game. So work on improving yourself and you'll get laid a lot more...
My tips:
1. Get into elite shape (top 5-10% of the population).
2. Be a horny sexual mofo.
3. Be intelligent and have a good job/business.
4. Know how to gauge interest, escalate and build sexual tension.
5. Mostly approach girls that give you high IOI. Since you'll be in elite shape you'll have tons of girls that want your weiner in the their mouth... but still make sure you're attracted to them as well.
6. Be an animal in the sack.
In my experience girls LOVE sex... so a key combination of traits that will make you universally attractive is to be in elite shape and be able to phuck like a sewing machine and pleasure the girl. Obviously having a good job/income just adds to things and the level of girls you can attract would probably go up again.
Hope my tips helped. Enjoy your stay here mang.
The Pedantical
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I think the best advice you can get, that trumps all the DJ Bible or anything else on this site, is from David X
Look up his videos on youtube
Look up his videos on youtube