"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey guys, Angelo here.

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I am new to this forum and to the Don Juan lifestyle. Anyways, I am here hoping to be the man I was meant to be. My high school years was tough and my self-confidence was shot from those years, but right now I am getting back on my feet. I am reading the Don Juan bible and it's been fun so far. But can you guys sort of guide me on what to read and do in order to be better with women?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I can sorta relate to you man, I was stuck in oneitis with a girl for 2 years of high school, and it really trashed my confidence and my game. But fear not, this website is pretty great, the guys on here are generally helpful and the veterans know what they're talking about. All I have for you is just to practice everything you learn, don't copy it. Just try to incorporate some of the things you learn.
 

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I just want this to be natural and don't feel like I am spitting out scripts. I want to be able to converse with hot women with ease, get numbers, line up dates, get those worthy enough to bed. I want hot women to be a regular part of my life. School, work, exercise, and women :)
 

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Angelo said:
I am new to this forum and to the Don Juan lifestyle. Anyways, I am here hoping to be the man I was meant to be. My high school years was tough and my self-confidence was shot from those years, but right now I am getting back on my feet. I am reading the Don Juan bible and it's been fun so far. But can you guys sort of guide me on what to read and do in order to be better with women?
Read the ENTIRE DJ Bible, it's good to have the knowledge.. But... No reading is going to make you better with women. The only thing that will make you better with women is improving in the areas that you think you are lacking in by actually practising in the real world.
 

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Yeah. Like Korrupt said, Practice makes perfect man. If you want the best you gotta BE the best.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Welcome to the board. The guys above gave you a great tip about practicing.

I've always had a high success percentage with girls even though I never did cold approaches or sarged or approached everything that wore a skirt. One of central concepts I believe is that a guy who has his shiit together (great physique, good job/business, engaging personality w/ game) will naturally fair better at getting women than just some dude who wastes all his time on learning game. So work on improving yourself and you'll get laid a lot more...

My tips:

1. Get into elite shape (top 5-10% of the population).
2. Be a horny sexual mofo.
3. Be intelligent and have a good job/business.
4. Know how to gauge interest, escalate and build sexual tension.
5. Mostly approach girls that give you high IOI. Since you'll be in elite shape you'll have tons of girls that want your weiner in the their mouth... but still make sure you're attracted to them as well.
6. Be an animal in the sack.

In my experience girls LOVE sex... so a key combination of traits that will make you universally attractive is to be in elite shape and be able to phuck like a sewing machine and pleasure the girl. Obviously having a good job/income just adds to things and the level of girls you can attract would probably go up again.

Hope my tips helped. Enjoy your stay here mang.
 

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Fuglydude said:
Welcome to the board. The guys above gave you a great tip about practicing.

I've always had a high success percentage with girls even though I never did cold approaches or sarged or approached everything that wore a skirt. One of central concepts I believe is that a guy who has his shiit together (great physique, good job/business, engaging personality w/ game) will naturally fair better at getting women than just some dude who wastes all his time on learning game. So work on improving yourself and you'll get laid a lot more...

My tips:

1. Get into elite shape (top 5-10% of the population).
2. Be a horny sexual mofo.
3. Be intelligent and have a good job/business.
4. Know how to gauge interest, escalate and build sexual tension.
5. Mostly approach girls that give you high IOI. Since you'll be in elite shape you'll have tons of girls that want your weiner in the their mouth... but still make sure you're attracted to them as well.
6. Be an animal in the sack.

In my experience girls LOVE sex... so a key combination of traits that will make you universally attractive is to be in elite shape and be able to phuck like a sewing machine and pleasure the girl. Obviously having a good job/income just adds to things and the level of girls you can attract would probably go up again.

Hope my tips helped. Enjoy your stay here mang.
Thanks man, this is a really good advice. Just by reading a lot of articles I am already having more confidence and begin to talk to women more confidently.
 

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Fuglydude said:
Welcome to the board. The guys above gave you a great tip about practicing.

I've always had a high success percentage with girls even though I never did cold approaches or sarged or approached everything that wore a skirt. One of central concepts I believe is that a guy who has his shiit together (great physique, good job/business, engaging personality w/ game) will naturally fair better at getting women than just some dude who wastes all his time on learning game. So work on improving yourself and you'll get laid a lot more...

My tips:

1. Get into elite shape (top 5-10% of the population).
2. Be a horny sexual mofo.
3. Be intelligent and have a good job/business.
4. Know how to gauge interest, escalate and build sexual tension.
5. Mostly approach girls that give you high IOI. Since you'll be in elite shape you'll have tons of girls that want your weiner in the their mouth... but still make sure you're attracted to them as well.
6. Be an animal in the sack.

In my experience girls LOVE sex... so a key combination of traits that will make you universally attractive is to be in elite shape and be able to phuck like a sewing machine and pleasure the girl. Obviously having a good job/income just adds to things and the level of girls you can attract would probably go up again.

Hope my tips helped. Enjoy your stay here mang.
"Phuck like a sewing machine " LOL, That's the funniest thing I've heard all week !!!
 

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I think the best advice you can get, that trumps all the DJ Bible or anything else on this site, is from David X

Look up his videos on youtube
 
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