"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey do you guys rub one out before date???

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I was wondering i know people say if horny more aggressive but i also feel judgment is clouded and not as ****y. Please help thank you
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Absolutely not. To my knowledge, the only people that do it are the ones scared of orgasming too early.

Even if I orgasm too early, there's always a second round.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thelonewolflegend said:
problem is this chick wont go second round usually how do u convince her?
You must be doing something wrong. I mean once I get involve with a chick, she's usually ready for a few rounds :box:

Anyways, rubbing one out might screw you over at the end because you won't have the drive to make the move in order to finish the deal
 

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badboyjmm said:
Anyways, rubbing one out might screw you over at the end because you won't have the drive to make the move in order to finish the deal
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.

As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick ;)
 
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Buck83 said:
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.

As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick ;)
Quit masturbation as a sexual outlet and get addicted to sex and make sex your outlet. It's for real, rubbing one out does kill some of the drive to get the real thing!
 

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I think this whole thing about masturbating before a date comes from the movie There's Something About Mary. I had never heard of such a thing before seeing that film. And no, I don't think much of the idea.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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badboyjmm

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Buck83 said:
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.

As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick ;)
Exactly, I love porn but it makes me uber lazy and I tend to not have any motivation to meet girls. So No fap is generally a good idea.

Definitely right about alcohol helping. I already a beast without it, with alcohol... I'm pretty much unstoppable :rockon:

Back to OP, once you are done and ready for the second round, you lead the interaction for sex to happen again

Either you re-start foreplay or you immediately put her in position to receive your offering. If you were doing it right the first time, she will be waiting for more :cheer: !
 

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badboyjmm said:
Exactly, I love porn but it makes me uber lazy and I tend to not have any motivation to meet girls. So No fap is generally a good idea.
On the other hand, many guys here rue the addictive-like hold that women have over them. So if you can fap and be relatively free of that, is it really a bad thing? Just food for thought.
 

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zekko said:
On the other hand, many guys here rue the addictive-like hold that women have over them. So if you can fap and be relatively free of that, is it really a bad thing? Just food for thought.
Fair enough, I guess it there's a sweet balance in between the two
 

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No. That's some beta sh!t right there. 1-2 nights before? Possibly but I wouldn't recommend it. The same day? Hell no
 
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