thelonewolflegend
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I was wondering i know people say if horny more aggressive but i also feel judgment is clouded and not as ****y. Please help thank you
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You must be doing something wrong. I mean once I get involve with a chick, she's usually ready for a few rounds :box:thelonewolflegend said:problem is this chick wont go second round usually how do u convince her?
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.badboyjmm said:Anyways, rubbing one out might screw you over at the end because you won't have the drive to make the move in order to finish the deal
Quit masturbation as a sexual outlet and get addicted to sex and make sex your outlet. It's for real, rubbing one out does kill some of the drive to get the real thing!Buck83 said:^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.
As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Exactly, I love porn but it makes me uber lazy and I tend to not have any motivation to meet girls. So No fap is generally a good idea.Buck83 said:^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.
As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick![]()
On the other hand, many guys here rue the addictive-like hold that women have over them. So if you can fap and be relatively free of that, is it really a bad thing? Just food for thought.badboyjmm said:Exactly, I love porn but it makes me uber lazy and I tend to not have any motivation to meet girls. So No fap is generally a good idea.
Fair enough, I guess it there's a sweet balance in between the twozekko said:On the other hand, many guys here rue the addictive-like hold that women have over them. So if you can fap and be relatively free of that, is it really a bad thing? Just food for thought.