"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hey do you guys rub one out before date???

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I was wondering i know people say if horny more aggressive but i also feel judgment is clouded and not as ****y. Please help thank you
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Absolutely not. To my knowledge, the only people that do it are the ones scared of orgasming too early.

Even if I orgasm too early, there's always a second round.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thelonewolflegend said:
problem is this chick wont go second round usually how do u convince her?
You must be doing something wrong. I mean once I get involve with a chick, she's usually ready for a few rounds :box:

Anyways, rubbing one out might screw you over at the end because you won't have the drive to make the move in order to finish the deal
 

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badboyjmm said:
Anyways, rubbing one out might screw you over at the end because you won't have the drive to make the move in order to finish the deal
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.

As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick ;)
 
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Buck83 said:
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.

As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick ;)
Quit masturbation as a sexual outlet and get addicted to sex and make sex your outlet. It's for real, rubbing one out does kill some of the drive to get the real thing!
 

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I think this whole thing about masturbating before a date comes from the movie There's Something About Mary. I had never heard of such a thing before seeing that film. And no, I don't think much of the idea.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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badboyjmm

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Buck83 said:
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.

As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick ;)
Exactly, I love porn but it makes me uber lazy and I tend to not have any motivation to meet girls. So No fap is generally a good idea.

Definitely right about alcohol helping. I already a beast without it, with alcohol... I'm pretty much unstoppable :rockon:

Back to OP, once you are done and ready for the second round, you lead the interaction for sex to happen again

Either you re-start foreplay or you immediately put her in position to receive your offering. If you were doing it right the first time, she will be waiting for more :cheer: !
 

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badboyjmm said:
Exactly, I love porn but it makes me uber lazy and I tend to not have any motivation to meet girls. So No fap is generally a good idea.
On the other hand, many guys here rue the addictive-like hold that women have over them. So if you can fap and be relatively free of that, is it really a bad thing? Just food for thought.
 

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zekko said:
On the other hand, many guys here rue the addictive-like hold that women have over them. So if you can fap and be relatively free of that, is it really a bad thing? Just food for thought.
Fair enough, I guess it there's a sweet balance in between the two
 

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No. That's some beta sh!t right there. 1-2 nights before? Possibly but I wouldn't recommend it. The same day? Hell no
 
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