"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey DJ's, how's it going?

VeryBadGirl

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I was slacking off at work and realized that there was one site that I hadn't visited in awhile - sosuave.com.

I see that everything is nearly the same here - same lively debate - and you all are still getting all the hot chicks.

I'm still a "bad girl" and quite happy about it. Exciting news for me is that I am getting married to my guy in August.

Anyone remember me? Any old school DJ's still out there?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TyTe`EyEs

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Before my time.


Stay active...or don't. :D
 

Eternal

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Ah, older posters coming back...Such a joy.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by VeryBadGirl
I'm still a "bad girl" and quite happy about it. Exciting news for me is that I am getting married to my guy in August.
i dont remember you must be before my time here, all i can say is that, and i mean this in a light hearted joking kind of way, was it neccisery to mention that the person you are marying is a guy :p i guess you could be gay, but are gay mariges even allowed?

P.S take me with you on your honeymoon if your going somewhere nice, havent been abroad for ages!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tactic

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congratulations
 
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