"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey DJ's, how's it going?

VeryBadGirl

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I was slacking off at work and realized that there was one site that I hadn't visited in awhile - sosuave.com.

I see that everything is nearly the same here - same lively debate - and you all are still getting all the hot chicks.

I'm still a "bad girl" and quite happy about it. Exciting news for me is that I am getting married to my guy in August.

Anyone remember me? Any old school DJ's still out there?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TyTe`EyEs

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Before my time.


Stay active...or don't. :D
 

Eternal

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Ah, older posters coming back...Such a joy.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by VeryBadGirl
I'm still a "bad girl" and quite happy about it. Exciting news for me is that I am getting married to my guy in August.
i dont remember you must be before my time here, all i can say is that, and i mean this in a light hearted joking kind of way, was it neccisery to mention that the person you are marying is a guy :p i guess you could be gay, but are gay mariges even allowed?

P.S take me with you on your honeymoon if your going somewhere nice, havent been abroad for ages!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tactic

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congratulations
 
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